For Those Are The Greatest Friend Not Just Bestfriends

I was thinking of posting this a few days ago. It was so sentimental of me. I almost cried when i saw her in a wedding dress. 'baju nikah' to be exact. She is that greatest friend... And I have only 2 of those.. For her i dedicated this entry.. (btw,she didn't read my blog ;P)

Those greatest friend is not just bestfriends

Those are the one who did not ask you why u didn't call them, instead they call you

Those are the one who talk directly what they didn't agree infront of your face but backed you up behind you

Those are friend who defend you when others critisized you, in fact they explain to others what are you, and who are you

Those are friend who simply ask you for uncertain news they heard about you

Those are friend who did not ask you to be STRONG when you are down, but they be strong for you

Those greatest friend they have never talks behind you, they tell you straight to your face what went wrong

Those are friend that are hard n rare to find, they have never had a heart feeling or 'terluka' or 'kecik hati' with you because they understand you without you having to explain

Those are friend your parents know by nickname

Those greatest friend come to your rescue, whenever you need them eventhough you have not contacted them for months, infact for year..

Those are friend who are happy for you, and whatever you did or have done with your live

Those are friend who silently forgive you, and you did the same..

I been postponing to post this entry that I lost words. I only have 2 of those greatest friend.. Hoping not to loose them

Bestfriend : I have 3 of them, and Aida my bestfriend during campus life died 2 years ago
(I had never had a chance to tell her she's my bestfriend...sob..sob..)

Some people may ask me how can you count friends like that? For me, greatest friend are rare, bestfriend are countable, but friend are incountable. Trust me, never had i tell them they are my greatest/ bestfriend. But they know who they are... Been knowing them for like more than 10 years. We have never declared we're bestfriend, but we are. They are there during my happiest moment, on my wedding day, during my confinement period, they struggle to come just to meet my juniors.. They know my husband very well n mingle with him as if they are his friend also. My hubby doesn't feel awkward during their attendance and so they are..infact they will simply call my husband hp to reach me..or to find me if i 'lost' for long time...ahakss

I have 2 good friends, ala...only 2 ka? yup...2 good friend who definitely being good and caring

And I have 3 understanding friends who are great, and of course understanding.. we've known each others by heart. We hardly meet, when i said hardly means HARRRRRDDDDLYYYYY... But i adore them dearly for we're from different background and only one similar thing that connect us...our babies.

And, i was hoping that in the future, my babies...Dina and Azalea will meet their greatest and bestfriend of their own. who cherish every moment of their life. Who demand no love but giving it. To accompany then throughout their life, be it single or married, young or old. Of course, to have a greatest friend, there are give n take...but definitely no demand.

My Azalea

Azalea...Nur Hanis Azalea. I love so much to call her Azalea instead of Nur or Hanis. Azalea in arabic means forever, ‘kekal abadi’. Nur is cahaya, Hanis is takwa. So Nur Hanis Azalea mean Cahaya Takwa Kekal Abadi. I don’t know where in the world did i have the idea of naming my babies with that long name. All i want to is for them to have name that have a sentence of meaning. Instead of each word meaning. Kakak named as Nur Irdina Nasuha meaning Cahaya Kehormatan Kami Suci Murni.

Azalea in scientific is the name of flower. Huhuu...mentang-mentang la mama org science. Acually it was coincidence. I didn’t realised Azalea is the name of flower until a few of my friends (ex-coursemate in Chemistry) reply my msg saying it was nice to name a daughter with name of flower. Masa tuh baru 2 3 hari bersalinkan Azalea. Bukan sorang plak tuh kata Azalea tuh nama bunga, 3 4 org jugak la. Paling best nenek kata, Azalea nama jenama pinggan. Hehehe...memang ada pun.

Azalea is one the Best things that happen to my life. When i’m in my 2nd pregnancy i was just hoping that i can give kakak baby sister. But never had i mentioned that i wanted so much another baby girl. Kalau org tanyer pun paling banyak i’ll said, rasa cam nk baby girl, tp x kisah la baby girl ke boy...janji sihat. But i did know nenek nak cucu boy lagi sorang, coz cucu nenek now 7 girl, 2 boy. (back then before Azalea was borned 6 girls and 1 boy). Tapi Nenek tak kisah. Nenek sayang semua sama. My husband and I called my mom, Nenek n my MIL, Opah. so that the children will understand. Plus it’s easier to differenciate between mak keramat n mak kampar. We always said mak when mention either mak kampar or mak keramat. It has never been mak abg or mak saya. maybe because I don’t feel it appropriate to address my MIL as mak abg, for me once i’m married to their son i’m their daughter. Eh ...tgh cite psl Azalea kan..leh corner ke lain pulak...
Azalea for one thing...is totally different from kakak. She is more active, but focused. Kakak also active but she hardly mingled with other. Lambat kakak nk baik dgn org. But Kakak is a fast learner and yet she’s hardly focused, so much like mama. Azalea mmg lain sgt dari kakak, but dia cepat tangkap apa kakak buat and tiru. And she’s so much like papa, focused...tak leh kacau. Paling haru bile Azalea tiru apa kakak buat and buat lebih advance. Contoh nya, kalau kakak menulis..Azalea akan ikut. But yang Kakak tulis atas kertas, yang Azalea tulis atas kertas, buku cerita, dinding and carpet. Paling haru kakak yang tak pernah conteng dinding pun ikut Azalea. Paling hebat, Azalea conteng tangan and badan. Kakak ikut sekali jek, kena marah.. Kakak tak pernah buat dah. Since she was small like 15 months, kakak dh bole bezakan kemarahan, kegembiraan, pujian dan sebagainya. so kakak kalau kena marah sekejap dah paham. Azalea??? ekekekkeee....ligat, marah la camne pun. Dia diam sat jek Pastu, mama and papa garu kepala..sambil mama taip nih Azalea tgh cuba conteng baju..

Azalea is one of the best things that happen to our life. Pernah mama n papa menitik airmata. syahdu tgk kakak main dgn Azalea. seolah2 our hajat utk bagi kakak teman tercapai. Mmg kalo kecik berdua nih gaduh, mama geram...papa lagi la sejak jaga diorg sendirian sebab mama asyik kursus, bile marah cam ‘blood goes upstairs’ jek. kihkihkih...Tapi bile diorang main gelak-gelak..heaven jek rase..

Azalea jauh beza dengan kakak. Kakak takut org, Azalea berani tapi jinak2 merpati. dekat boleh, sentuh jangan. At the age of 9 months, Azalea dh boleh panjat tangga n kerusi kecil. Panjat merata but umur setahun baru boleh jalan. Kakak failed bab memanjat sampai umur 2 tahun. But actually kakak starts walking at 8 months. Pakai kan kasut, lepas lah Azalea berjalan...huhuuu...jauh pergi nyer. Kakak? selagi boleh menebeng kat mama n papa...heheh...akan menebeng selama mungkin. Langsung tak terpesona dgn tarikan dunia. Kakak is a light sleeper, kalau tinggal dia tido sensorang, tak sampai 15 minit, kakak akan terbangun. Azalea...tidur nyenyak tak hingat. So kalau Azalea tidur tak nyenyak...kitorg paham lah somethings wrong somewhere..

Azalea banyak betul beza dengan kakak. But both are princesses yang teramat kami sayang. Mama yang beria nk baby girl masa mengandung kan kakak. Azalea is the bonus. Memang old saying ada ckp ‘menjaga sekandang kerbau lagi mudah dari menjaga seorg anak perempuan’. Kira mama ada dua kandang kerbau ker? hikhikhik...but deep down I always remember that and pray my princesses will be wanita solehah and taat. Amin. Semoga ‘Cahaya Takwa akan Kekal Abadi’ dan ‘Cahaya Kehormatan Kami itu sentiasa Suci Murni’...