Tuesday, August 21, 2007

For Those Are The Greatest Friend Not Just Bestfriends

I was thinking of posting this a few days ago. It was so sentimental of me. I almost cried when i saw her in a wedding dress. 'baju nikah' to be exact. She is that greatest friend... And I have only 2 of those.. For her i dedicated this entry.. (btw,she didn't read my blog ;P)

Those greatest friend is not just bestfriends

Those are the one who did not ask you why u didn't call them, instead they call you

Those are the one who talk directly what they didn't agree infront of your face but backed you up behind you

Those are friend who defend you when others critisized you, in fact they explain to others what are you, and who are you

Those are friend who simply ask you for uncertain news they heard about you

Those are friend who did not ask you to be STRONG when you are down, but they be strong for you

Those greatest friend they have never talks behind you, they tell you straight to your face what went wrong

Those are friend that are hard n rare to find, they have never had a heart feeling or 'terluka' or 'kecik hati' with you because they understand you without you having to explain

Those are friend your parents know by nickname

Those greatest friend come to your rescue, whenever you need them eventhough you have not contacted them for months, infact for year..

Those are friend who are happy for you, and whatever you did or have done with your live

Those are friend who silently forgive you, and you did the same..

I been postponing to post this entry that I lost words. I only have 2 of those greatest friend.. Hoping not to loose them

Bestfriend : I have 3 of them, and Aida my bestfriend during campus life died 2 years ago
(I had never had a chance to tell her she's my bestfriend...sob..sob..)

Some people may ask me how can you count friends like that? For me, greatest friend are rare, bestfriend are countable, but friend are incountable. Trust me, never had i tell them they are my greatest/ bestfriend. But they know who they are... Been knowing them for like more than 10 years. We have never declared we're bestfriend, but we are. They are there during my happiest moment, on my wedding day, during my confinement period, they struggle to come just to meet my juniors.. They know my husband very well n mingle with him as if they are his friend also. My hubby doesn't feel awkward during their attendance and so they are..infact they will simply call my husband hp to reach me..or to find me if i 'lost' for long time...ahakss

I have 2 good friends, ala...only 2 ka? yup...2 good friend who definitely being good and caring

And I have 3 understanding friends who are great, and of course understanding.. we've known each others by heart. We hardly meet, when i said hardly means HARRRRRDDDDLYYYYY... But i adore them dearly for we're from different background and only one similar thing that connect us...our babies.

And, i was hoping that in the future, my babies...Dina and Azalea will meet their greatest and bestfriend of their own. who cherish every moment of their life. Who demand no love but giving it. To accompany then throughout their life, be it single or married, young or old. Of course, to have a greatest friend, there are give n take...but definitely no demand.

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